Note to Self- Day Game is not Night Game. There is no need to yell and throw a bunch of laughs her way and do all the crazy get her attention first. It's the daytime, I can take things slow, be less reaction seeking and breathe a lot more. No need to take out the ball of twine, pet butterflies and chocolate lollipops to tickle her fancy
We went out to get some sunshine and take a stroll down Mont-Royal Street. We walked by this clothing store and I saw the outline of a Barbie doll looking girl. Tres cute. We walked by and I told Stephane, and he said why don't you go back and talk to her?
So I did. I walked in (she had her back turned, I hadn't seen her face yet) and said, "Has anyone ever told you that you look like a Barbie Doll?"
It not the best opener to use, but she was super nice and said ohmygod thank you. Took me totally of guard, she was NICE! I got super nervous and as totally un-calibrated as I was told her she had great squirter dimples and she laughed and then I ran out the door with my tail between my legs...
I had totally forgotten the golden rule.
You are truly loved. (And who cares what they think)
You know when women have the waves of emotion? That was me today; I was on roller coaster ride of ups and downs. At least I was aware of it whew! I mean, I was walking before Stephane and DragonButterDave and totally in my head going through all the little things that I can do the next time I encounter a situation like the one I was in today.
Things to remember Ghita: Slow Down. It’s not a race between the tortoise and the hair, being fastest doesn't always mean you'll get there faster, remember the tortoise wins in the end?
When I'm talking to a girl, ESPECIALLY DURING THE DAY! Just ask the regular questions. You don't have to 'isolate the target and caveman her into an area of XYZ with this tactic and amogging this dude and jumping here and climbing up a tree like Dragon Butter Dave did today...'
Anyway, I've missed the spring and what it brings. It brings new life, new life for the plants and new life for me. It's a time for me to grow emotionally, perfect my new learning’s of all the past year, and see my pickup and love of women flower. It's time to let go of the insecurity, it's time for me to blossom, to become a beautiful bisexual women, to grow into my greatness, I mean, don't you know who I am?
(Holy Smokes is learning pickup ever hard on the ego. GOD I LOVE IT! When your green you grow when you're ripe you rot baby...)
Thanks for being the with me Stephane
I love you.
Ghita
